To all my single women in their 40s this Valentine’s Day… 
It’s okay where you’re at.
If today feels peaceful — that’s beautiful.
If today feels heavy — that’s valid.
If today feels empowering — lean into it.
If today feels tender — give yourself grace.
You are not behind.
You are not forgotten.
You are not less than because there isn’t a partner next to you in a photo tonight.
You are whole.
You have lived.
You have learned.
You have loved.
You have survived things that shaped you into a woman who knows her worth.
Valentine’s Day is not just about romantic love.
It’s about the love you’ve poured into your career.
The love you’ve given your family.
The love you show up with for your friends.
The love you’re still learning to give yourself.
Being single in your 40s doesn’t mean you’re missing something.
It means you refuse to settle.
It means you value peace.
It means you trust timing.
It means you know that the right love — including your own — is worth waiting for.
To all my single women in their 40s this Valentine’s Day…
It’s okay where you’re at.
If today feels peaceful — that’s beautiful.
If today feels heavy — that’s valid.
If today feels empowering — lean into it.
If today feels tender — give yourself grace.
You are not behind.
You are not forgotten.
You are not less than because there isn’t a partner next to you in a photo tonight.
You are whole.
You have lived.
You have learned.
You have loved.
You have survived things that shaped you into a woman who knows her worth.
Valentine’s Day is not just about romantic love.
It’s about the love you’ve poured into your career.
The love you’ve given your family.
The love you show up with for your friends.
The love you’re still learning to give yourself.
Being single in your 40s doesn’t mean you’re missing something.
It means you refuse to settle.
It means you value peace.
It means you trust timing.
It means you know that the right love — including your own — is worth waiting for.
